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                          參加陌生聚會說話技巧

                          來源: www.numenleather.com 時間:2019-06-24 編輯: 人生感悟
                          參加陌生聚會說話技巧

                          為了讓社交更廣泛些,我們不得不去參加一些陌生人的聚會,明知道有一半是見一面加個微信就老死不相往來的,能在之后還一起出去玩的能有十分之一就不錯了,能在那之后才頻繁聯系關系非常好的能有五十分之一就不錯了。

                          如果你是個社交新人不要指望像長期發展的人際關系一樣,想要讓大家慢慢的發現你的好。社交老鳥也大多明白這里不是來交朋友的對方,都是各懷目的,尋求利益的。

                          參加聚會首先要有裝備,禮服鞋子首飾香水,各種花銷不菲,真是想要收獲得先播種付出啊。人們在聚會中往往被這幾種人吸引:長相好看的人,身份牛叉的人,有趣的人。你占一個,就可以打開人們對你的興趣。如果你妄想著走幾乎沒打扮隨便穿了一下就去聚會,期望用內在吸引的真正談得來的人,本君勸你還是洗洗睡在家了吧。
                           
                          以上準備好那么才是重點,說話在聚會上尤其顯得重要,任何的關系都要先有交情,矯情就得先套近乎,那么如何在聚會上搭上陌生人的線就很重要,既要顯得真誠有要自然。適度可能是世界上最難掌握的度,談話時要注意些什么呢?
                           
                          第一守則——適當裝逼,適時閉嘴。
                          理解談話的藝術。選擇輕松的話題,不要詢問隱私,不要談論政治,更不要逼人站隊,最最重要的,不要鉆牛角尖,遇到你不同意的觀點,笑笑就好,千萬不要辯個沒完。
                           
                          第二守則——注重觀察,留意細節
                           
                          留心細節,學會說“十秒悄悄話”,就是通過觀察對方的衣著相貌,在很短的時間內打一個令人印象深刻的招呼,以便為第二次見面創造熟悉的感覺,比如“你的鞋子真好看”,“今天穿的裙子和你的氣質很配耶!”“皮鞋很帥,哪里買的?”“身材真好,常健身吧”.......
                           
                          如果你看到有人交叉的雙臂,低頭走,咳嗽或打哈欠頻繁,或勉強的微笑。這些信號是表示無聊,需要離開,或是其他分心的事,此時便不要上前交談,再選時機吧。
                           
                          第三守則——別在一棵樹上吊死
                           
                          最好不要一對一和某個人一直說話,最好幾個人一起聊。聊一聊就走開換個人聊,迅速交換微信號。然后挑一兩個覺得靠譜的繼續返回頭去聊天。一來二去就熟悉了。
                           
                          第四守則——談話不要死抬杠
                           
                          一大群人在討論著某部電影刷新了渣片的新低度,非要冒出來說:“我覺得哪部電影還不錯啊?剛獲得了多少多少票房”;大家在討論著社會上的某種惡習,一群人正憤憤不平,非要跑出來說“我覺得還好啊,這沒什么呀,是你們大驚小怪了吧?……”
                           
                          這種人開始可能還能吸引別人的目光,但如果你沒有豐厚的學識和強有力的語言說服大家贊同你的觀點,很容被大家反感。讓人覺得你是在故意唱反調,為否定而否定。但凡圈子里出現這種人,大家大都避而遠之。
                           
                          總結一下談話最基礎的技巧就是,避免結論和判斷類的話語,而是深入挖掘細節和聯想。談話的目的就是:避免一個話題的完全結束,而是在雙方都沒意識的情況下不斷過渡到新話題。實在不知道談什么就不要硬聊,找個什么借口趕快結束你們不愉快的尬聊,微笑退場。
                           
                          其實能不能在PARTY上閃閃發亮,我們何必那么在意呢?這場失敗了還有下一場,做人關鍵是心態。當我們熟練駕馭這些說話技巧,在任何聚會上都可以和所有人侃侃而談,這并不代表著完美。因為它也意味著在他人眼里,對你來說沒有真正重要的人。所以關鍵還是自身的價值,你說呢?一起感悟人生www.numenleather.com
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